Pushing or Pulling
When helping others we sometimes lose track of whether we are encouraging them or pushing them and it makes all the difference.
When you are pushing, it is you supplying the energy.
When you are encouraging, it is them supplying the energy.
If you are the type that needs to be needed you should be a pusher.
You can then be assured of achieving your goal and filling your needs because nothing will happen without you.
If you want to get things done the straightforward way, you will encourage others.
Then you can sit down and relax or begin another job while the first job gets done without you.